How you treat others says a lot about you. Don’t get lost in the wording when the idea is not to treat others badly. ~ Tanya Dove
If someone else makes a choice to treat others badly that is on them, we only have control of how we can choose to behave or treat others. I choose to break the cycle and not treat others as I have been treated.
Mentally strong individuals don’t worry about Pleasing Others. Know any people pleasers? Or, conversely, people who go out of their way to dis-please others as a way of reinforcing an image of strength? Neither position is a good one. A mentally strong person strives to be kind and fair and to please others where appropriate, but is unafraid to speak up. They are able to withstand the possibility that someone will get upset and will navigate the situation, wherever possible, with grace. It takes much practice to hone mental strength. ~ Madison King
Everyone should own their own feelings. No one can make you feel anyway. If you are confident and secure, you know you are fully responsible for your own feelings. Don’t give people that much power over you to control your emotions. ~ Debbie Foege